If, like me, you're on a strict budget, it's easy to focus on all the things your finances don't allow.
"I know, I'll bring my journal to a coffee shop. . .Wait. That costs money. . .Oh! I'll take a walk downtown! . . But all the cute book and antique shops will just remind me of what I can't afford. . .Hey! I'll catch up over lunch with a few friends! . . Um, I wonder how they'd feel about a main course of ramen?"
"I know, I'll bring my journal to a coffee shop. . .Wait. That costs money. . .Oh! I'll take a walk downtown! . . But all the cute book and antique shops will just remind me of what I can't afford. . .Hey! I'll catch up over lunch with a few friends! . . Um, I wonder how they'd feel about a main course of ramen?"
Kinda depressing. In fact, disheartened, you might just end up twiddling your thumbs, re-burying yourself in your work, or catching up on some household chores. Rumination, work, and chores are all well and good in their place, but a person needs a little fun, too.
Beating the Bored and Broke Blues
- Get a library card. Libraries are the frugal girl's best friend. An endless supply of reading material . . . free movie rentals . . . If you don't use your local library you're missing out!
- Instead of the coffee shop, go to the park! Bring a travel mug of your favorite coffee or tea, your book or journal, and a little sunscreen.
- Have a picnic with friends. If everybody brings one or two things, the outlay can be less than $3 per person—cheaper than shopping or doing lunch, and more kid-friendly, too.
- Read the paper. I subscribe to the Sunday paper because it's only about $5 a month, and I figure that I usually save that much or more from the coupons I clip from it anyway. So not only is it cheap entertainment (and hey, it includes crosswords and sudokus,) but it's cheap entertainment that pays for itself!
- Attend free (or cheap) community events. The paper can help you out here, too; most of them have events listings online. (Note to stalkers: I don't actually live in Fort Collins.) A couple weeks ago, I read about the county's fishing expo in the Sunday paper. My good friend is into fishing, so we went and listened to a seminar on spring walleye-fishing tactics. For free!
- Write a poem. About anything. In any form. Be fearless!
- Sketch something.
- Learn a new useful skill—start refinishing an old grubby piece of furniture, check out a How To Knit book at the library. . .
- Take a look through your DVDs and see if there's something you haven't watched in a long time. I just re-discovered my love of Harold Lloyd this way!
- Pull out your old yearbooks/journals/personal archives; peruse and wince.
- Take a walk around your neighborhood and admire your neighbor's spring flowers.
- Listen to some new music—surf the radio or pick a totally random CD out at the library.
- Grow a plant. Look at it carefully every day to see how it's changing.
- Rearrange your furniture! Move things to entirely different rooms.
- Re-decorate with stuff you already have. Make a rag wreath out of old fabric. Bring out old kitchen tools (great grandma's egg-beater or anything with a little character) and hang on the wall or put on a bookshelf.
What do you do to beat the bored and broke blues?
This is a great post! I like your idea of having a picnic with friends - I honestly would take a reeaally long time to think of that on my own! When I'm broke and bored I like to craft things - make collages or random stuff out of things I'm not willing to toss or recycle just yet.
ReplyDeleteHey thanks for reading, Felicia! :) I wish I was more crafty. Things never do turn out quite as well as I would hope. . .
DeleteI took my 3 month old to the fish store (pet fish, not food fish, haha) near my neighborhood, and joked on Facebook how I was "taking him to the aquarium".
ReplyDeleteHe was fascinated by all the fish tanks, and at 3 months old he could care less that it wasn't going to the "traditional" type of aquariums, that cost a lot of money to go to lol. -Layla
Yes! I've totally gone to pet stores before just as if they were zoos---especially ones with kittens. :) And I don't even have a child for an excuse!
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